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We are all different

We are all different

There’s this strange dichotomy in the world of special needs. There’s the parent on the one hand who says, “I love my child and wouldn’t change a thing about them”. And then there’s the relieved mother who gets a 12 week pregnancy scan of her second child, after having a… Read more

The City that never sleeps

The City that never sleeps

They say NYC is the city that never sleeps. I don’t know that I’ve been making the most of that aspect of the city, but it did make me think of other things. This city is so big. There are so many people in a relatively small area. Buildings loom… Read more

Meeting the women who held vigil for me

Meeting the women who held vigil for me

It’s Wednesday here in New Zealand. In 10 sleeps I will be getting on a plane at an ungodly early hour of the morning and flying to Minneapolis, Minnesota to stay with the first mama from my facebook mama’s group.  Not long after Eva died, the group, which is a… Read more

That old chestnut 

I was reading a special needs mothers’ facebook page today and had to catch my breath for a minute. There was a comment on there  in reaction to a blog post that I felt so strongly about. It wasn’t ableist, or offensive. It didn’t use language that offends in the… Read more

Discovering stories – Bethany Van Delft

Discovering stories – Bethany Van Delft

I get so excited about discovering new things these days. New friends to meet. New TV shows to binge watch. New comedians to make me laugh. New stories to inspire me. New music to smile to or cry to. New authors to read. It’s a big part of why I’m… Read more

The Platinum Fundraiser

The Platinum Fundraiser

I’ve written before about that platitude that special needs parents get told that they will meet “some of the most amazing people” through being their child’s parent. The first time I heard it I rolled my eyes and scoffed. What possible friendship could make this situation alright? I thought. It… Read more